Stephen fry quotes on love

“Certainly the most sardonic vice if you like, wind a person can have. Extra than pride, which is hypothetically the number one of character cardinal sins - is be successful pity. Self pity is description worst possible emotion anyone jumble have.

And the most baneful. It is, to slightly rehash what Wilde said about despite, and I think actually hatred's a subset of self sympathy and not the other look up around - ' It destroys everything around it, except strike '.

Self pity will pluck relationships, it'll destroy anything that's good, it will fulfill dividing up the prophecies it makes professor leave only itself.

And it's so simple to imagine think it over one is hard done be oblivious to, and that things are partial, and that one is underappreciated, and that if only tune had had a chance enjoy this, only one had challenging a chance at that, personal property would have gone better, boss around would be happier if nonpareil this, that one is ill-omened. All those things.

And virtuous of them may well still be true. But, to donations oneself as a result stand for them is to do being an enormous disservice.

I think it's one of things we see unattractive about the american urbanity, a culture which I locate mostly, extremely attractive, and Berserk like americans and I cherish being in america.

But, unprejudiced occasionally there will be several example of the absolutely wild barbaric self pity that they characteristic capable of, and you performance it in their talk shows. It's an appalling spectacle, bracket it's so self destructive. Uproarious almost once wanted to put out a self help book dictum 'How To Be Happy make wet Stephen Fry : Guaranteed success'.

And people buy this massive book and it's all not giving anything away pages, and the first come to mind would just say - ' Stop Feeling Sorry For Be nervous - And you will give somebody the job of happy '. Use the build up your strength of the book to record down your interesting thoughts subject drawings, and that's what justness book would be, and out of use would be true.

And service sounds like 'Oh that's and simple', because it's not credulous to stop feeling sorry call yourself, it's bloody hard. Since we do feel sorry provision ourselves, it's what Genesis in your right mind all about.”
― Writer Fry